J Erwine - writer/editor ([info]jerwine) wrote,
@ 2008-04-16 00:59:00
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Current mood: depressed

Mortality Sucks
Early Tuesday morning, my friend Joe lost his battle with cancer. I got the news while I was at work tonight, and I'm still stunned. Joe had been my supervisor at my real job several years ago, but we quickly became friends. He was one of the few people I'd ever met who was actually a cycling fan...most people just stare at me with dumb expressions on their face whenever I talk about the sport. He was a super nice guy, and a bit of a smart ass, which fits my wise cracking personality really well.

He was diagnosed with cancer a few months ago, and he vowed to fight it like Lance Armstrong had fought his, but unfortunately, this time the cancer was too strong.

He was actually three years younger than me, so that's a slap in the face for me, and he was also very health-conscious, which just shows you that cancer can get anyone.

The worst part of all of this is that he had two young boys. I believe they were eight and four, and now they have to grow up without their father.

A sad day, a sad day indeed...........




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[info]ravenelectrick
2008-04-16 07:52 am UTC (link)
J,

My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your friend. I hope memories of the bond you shared with him will provide some comfort at this difficult time.

Take care.

Karen

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[info]jerwine
2008-04-16 07:06 pm UTC (link)
Thanks Karen. My biggest concern is for his boys. I can't imagine what that would be like to lose a father at a young age.

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[info]marvad
2008-04-16 03:58 pm UTC (link)
Sorry for the loss of your friend, J. Nothing more can be said.

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[info]jerwine
2008-04-16 07:06 pm UTC (link)
Thanks, Marva.

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[info]rhfay
2008-04-16 04:08 pm UTC (link)
Sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. It is a sobering experience to realize that cancer (or death by any means) can get anyone, at anytime.

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[info]jerwine
2008-04-16 07:07 pm UTC (link)
Cancer is scary. He was a healthy guy, and tried to live right, but it still didn't do any good.

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[info]mrockwell
2008-04-16 04:10 pm UTC (link)
My condolences, J. Mortality does indeed suck.

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[info]jerwine
2008-04-16 07:07 pm UTC (link)
Thanks. I guess we really do have to live each day like it might be our last, because you never know...

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[info]moon_happy
2008-04-17 02:06 am UTC (link)
I'm sorry you lost your friend. Stay close to the family. It's such a shock when a young family loses dad and husband; good friends just stopping by and calling for the next year or two (maybe forever) can be so important to all of them.

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[info]jerwine
2008-04-18 06:34 pm UTC (link)
They lived out of state, and I was never close to his ex-wife, but I'll do what I can...

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